You Are a Spiritual Being First

Key Scripture: “God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.” — John 4:24

There is something profoundly beautiful about the moment a woman realizes that her truest identity is not found in her career, her relationships, or her achievements — but in her spirit. You were born a spiritual being, housed in a physical body, navigating an earthly journey. Before the world gave you a name, before your parents painted your nursery, before your first breath, God knew your spirit intimately.Many women today live entirely from the outside in. They tend to the external — their appearance, their performance, their reputation — while the inner woman slowly withers from neglect. But the extraordinary woman understands a sacred truth: everything flows from the inside out. Your spirit is the seat of your strength, the wellspring of your joy, and the foundation of everything you will build in this life.Spiritual growth is not a religious exercise reserved for Sundays or quiet retreats. It is a daily, deliberate, deeply personal journey of becoming more attuned to the voice of God and more aligned with His purposes for your life. Every day you choose to nurture your spirit, you are choosing to water the roots of who you truly are. And a woman with deep roots cannot be easily shaken.Think of a great tree — the oak, the cedar, the redwood. What makes it extraordinary is not the leaves you see, but the root system you do not. Your spiritual life is your root system. The deeper you go with God, the higher you can grow. The more you invest in your interior life, the more fruit you will bear in the exterior world.Today, make a commitment. Not a commitment to perfection, but a commitment to presence — to showing up for your spirit every single day for the next 100 days. These days will stretch you, challenge you, heal you, and ultimately transform you into the extraordinary woman you were always created to be.

Reflection Questions:

1. When was the last time you truly nurtured your spirit, and what did that feel like?

2. What area of your spiritual life feels most neglected right now?

3. What one daily habit could you begin today to strengthen your spiritual roots?Prayer: Lord, I come before You acknowledging that I am, first and foremost, a spiritual being. Forgive me for the times I have neglected my inner life while obsessing over my outer one. Over these 100 days, I invite You to go deep with me — to dig up what needs to be uprooted and to plant what is good and eternal. Grow me, God. Amen.

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About the Author Adebisi Joy Ateli holds a degree in Biochemistry and Pgde in education a dynamic pastor, teacher, marriage counselor, author, Singer and women’s empowerment coach with a passion for helping individuals live purpose-driven lives. She is the founder of The Extraordinary Woman Academy and the visionary behind several life-transforming courses including Birthing Your More, Becoming a Woman of Purpose, and Positioned for Love. Her ministry and message empower women to embrace their God-given identity, break limitations, and walk boldly in their divine assignments. Adebisi is happily married to Apostle Nonso Ateli, and together they pastor two thriving churches under Christian Faith Centre: Triumphant Sanctuary, Akwebulu, and Christian Faith Centre, Mikky Okonji Street. Their home is a haven of love, faith, and leadership, blessed with five wonderful children: David, Esther, Daniel, Samuel, and Grace. She has authored numerous impactful books, including Succeeding in Marriage, The Extraordinary Woman Devotional, Becoming a Woman of Vision, and Becoming an Extraordinary Woman. Her writings are rooted in biblical truth and practical wisdom, helping people grow spiritually, emotionally, and relationally. Adebisi Joy Ateli is also the founder of Anatel Digital, a design company offering web and graphic design services, and she hosts Heart Matters, a radio program that addresses deep issues in relationships and spiritual growth. Through her books, courses, coaching programs, and media outreach, she continues to inspire thousands to rise, heal, and fulfill destiny.

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