MOVING BEYOND WHAT THE SOCIETY EXPECTS FROM YOU AS A WOMAN

The society is not fair with women; they want you to become nothing, only women who made a decision in life surpassed the expectations of the world around her. The society has its own mindset of who woman is and all that she can be, there has been certain limitations imposed on woman except from recent times when women decided to take the bull by the horn and broke out of limitations. From many communities women are seen as people who shouldn’t be invested in because at the end they will end of getting married to a man. Many women face abuses today from verbal abuse to domestic abuse or even brutal killings. This is because of the thoughts that have been raised for years concerning women. If you any these things limit you, your children will end up behaving like you some will even ask question. Daughters have been raped with the knowledge of their mothers but she kept quiet because she felt she has no voice. Woman rise above the expectations of the society and break out to become an extraordinary woman. A woman of impact of impact is who every girl, sister, mother wife is suppose to be. You have an enormous roll.Maybe your parents suggested to you that your husband will take care of you, woman what is really happening now. In most cases when you even meet man who takes care of you he tramples on your dream. Woman you were born to be extra ordinary not an ordinary, to live an ordinary life is to move according to the dictates of society. God forbid that our lives end up in shame, God forbid that will don’t become examples of women of faith to our children. God forbid that we leave this world without impacting those we were born to change. God forbid that our husbands do not become known because of us. An ordinary life makes no impact. No wonder proverbs 31:28 saysHer children rise up to call her blessed, her husband praises her as well.” For the children of a woman to call her blessed she must have done something remarkable. Refuse to live your life based on people’s expectation.An ordinary life is a life lacking extraordinary experiences. You cannot live your life working for others, taking care of family, sleeping and eating, you can achieve all these and more. Do not live your life aligning to societal norms and expectations without aspiring for greatness. There is more to you than you can actually see right now. You can birth your more every day that is the you in you. God made you with great thoughts, thoughts of good and not of evil to bring you to an expected end. Do you know that God expects so much from you, he does not want you to live a mediocre kind of life? Do you there are people who think you can never be successful. You must surpass this kind of expectations. In my teenage years I went through different experiences, my mother was a single mother and her friend told me I was going to end up like my mother. Thank God today I and better with the help and support of my mother. People can easily write you off but what you call your self is what matters.Dear reader you can change your life in a matter of minutes. It’s time to write your own story.